The Real Reason You’re Addicted to Your Phone
Nir’s Note: I no longer agree with this article. It’s been several years since it was written by Avi Itzkovitch and published to my site and I’m leaving it up for posterity. But after extensive research, I do not think it properly depicts “addiction.” Please see my thorough research on addiction here: https://www.nirandfar.com/addiction/ as well as my other articles on the topic of “Who is Really Addicted you to Technology.”
Do you constantly check your smartphone to see if you’ve received messages or notifications on Facebook? Does your phone distract you from your studies or work? Do your friends, parents, children, or spouse complain that you are not giving them enough attention because of your phone? You may be addicted to your phone.
The smartphone has become a constant companion. We carry it throughout the day and keep it by our bedside at night. We allow ourselves to be interrupted with messages from social media, emails and texts. We answer phone calls at times when it is not socially acceptable, and we put our immediate interactions with friends and family on hold when we hear that ring tone that tells us a message is arrived. Something fundamental in human behavior has changed: our sense of phone etiquette and propriety has caused us to get out of whack in our interactions with one another.
So why is it that we allow ourselves to be interrupted? (more…)